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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 00:59

How does one succeed in life?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why do I sweat so much after shower?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do men think all women are the same?

Procrastinates a lot.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why did my crush like me for only two days in a row?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can supporters of gun control explain the purpose behind a gun registry?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why do people love to live alone in a house?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How do people move on so quickly? I’m still sprung over someone I was dating and he found someone else so fast. I feel hurt because I’m still head over heels over him while he’s out enjoying his life with someone new

Ask yourself:

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hangs out with loser friends.

Whats the rule that makes "please" pronounced the same as "pleas"?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What are your thoughts about Hulk Hogan at the Republican National Convention in support of Trump and ripping his shirt off? Did he exaggerate?

What I need from you?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

At what point does trespassing become self defense? What are the necessary conditions for this line to be crossed from trespassing to self defense?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why does my vagina and around my butthole itch? I don't have weird discharge and I'm still a virgin.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

In what ways is modern day Russia similar to the USSR? How does it differ from the USSR in terms of culture and politics?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

That's it for today.

Is it appropriate for parents to discipline their child in public if the child is being rude, disrespectful, and unruly towards them? Why or why not?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do certain religions consider menstruating women to be impure? Where did the concept of impurity stem from?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Making more friends is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.